Also Sandra TRULY you need to either STOP or be fair and balanced. I would also like to say not all fathers walk out and make single moms.sometimes its the woman who leaves for whatever.That was not my case, but I do know of some.
She made me strong, resilient, intelligent, fearless, compassionate and respectful.I didn't learn everything about being a man, but I learned how to get to being a man.she gave me a GREAT foundation. MY moms raised me as Mother and Father, had her own business and I never wanted for shit. Most people out there judging single mothers wouldn't last a day in our lives yet are so quick to point the finger and blame us for the wrong in the world.įirst, I was raised by a single Mother, I'm not Gay,DL, a criminal, a deadbeat a mama's boy or whatever else.
Us women who step in and pick up the slack where they left off deserve to be supported, commended and encouraged not blamed for everything wrong in society repeatedly by people who've never walked in our shoes and have no idea what its like to sacrifice everything you have to raise your children the right way, be mother and father, never know what a full nights sleep is like, never have time to yourself, have to be on duty from sun up to sun down rarely hearing so much as a thank you mom, be caretaker, disciplinarian, teacher, counselor, friend and everything else while working full time, and a million other things you would never imagine unless you were, God forbid, to wake up and find yourself walking in our shoes. Men who leave their families do it because they're pathetic, sorry excuses for human beings who deserve to rot in hell. Wow Sandra, are you ever going to stop with the attacks and digs at single mothers? Why don't you blame the men? Oh wait, its cause they were probably raised by single mothers and that's why they do what they do, right? Smdh.
Your homosexuality is no different than a man's.
You are obviously one of those lesbians who believe that there is something "natural" about a woman with another woman, but clearly have issues with a man being with another man - as evidenced in the fact that everytime you mention a gay dude, it's negative or you find a way to attach an HIV stereotype to it.Įither you're going to walk the horse or ride it. I'm more troubled at you, a gay woman who would have worded this post ENTIRELY differently if this were two fem broads cuddled up, taking yet ANOTHER opportunity to use gay men, or the perceived notion of gay men to rant about HIV and AIDS, but that never seems to come up when you lovingly discuss the "lesbuns". Not too many straight men would be seen in public like this, but I could be wrong - Isn't assuming that they're on the DL or some straight dudes one step away from bisexuality just because they have on baseball caps and not skinny jeans or capri pants a stretch? Their physical attachment/comfort with one another speaks volumes. LMAO! From the looks of it, these are two gay men who don't give a damn what anybody else thinks about it. Meanwhile, African Americans account for the highest rate of new HIV/AIDS cases.Ĭome on, Sandra Mae. It's become nearly impossible to distinguish heterosexual men from down low thugs due to the proliferation of female-led households in the black community.Īs more and more black women switch roles and responsibilities with men, more and more fatherless men are turning to other men for the strength and guidance they are missing in their lives.
Over the past 4 decades, black women have decided to go it alone with their kids rather than be subservient to black men like their mothers and aunts were back in the days when black men were the majority head of households. The one on the left is lovingly touching the hand of the sleeping thug, which is a dead giveaway. The caption writer assumes that the two thugs are just homeboys probably returning home from late night partying. The caption under the pic reads: "#noexcuse I DONT GIVE A FUCK HOW SLEEPY YOU ARE." I found this homotional photo on last night. Hopefully, neither of these men are your husband or baby daddy.